My deepest and most sincere sympathy go out to you and your sweet family. You are amazing and so is your sweet Hayden. May The Lord bless you all and give you peace and understanding. You have my admiration and the admiration of many. Your lives have touched and influenced so many people. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry, i can't even imagine the pain your in, please know I'm thinking of you and your superhero. Your an amazing mother! I've been reading for a few months but never commented, i can only hope that I could be as strong as you if i am ever faced with a child with special needs!
Oh no. I'm so sorry. As soon as I read your post title, my heart caught in my throat. I've been praying for your family. Please know I will continue. My love and sympathy are with you.
Oh no so so sorry to hear you are an amazing woman. i cried when i read your news. Haydon is at peace now and like you said your little superhero is flyng now and he will always be in your heart. He knows he had the best mommy a baby could ever ever have. He is now safe in gods hands and no one or anything can hurt him now. xx from Australia.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how painful this must be for you and your family. He had exactly the parents he needed to have to have the best life possible for his time here. I will never forget him or your love for him. It has been a beautiful thing to witness. Big hugs.
He sure was a superhero and he was so lucky to have a superhero for a mother. I have been dreading this post, and while I have two rivers streaming down my cheeks, I also feel a great sense of peace for Master Cheeks. You're in my thoughts like always. Hold that Princess tight, she'll always know she had a superhero for a brother.
Yes he is, with no more procedures, no working so hard just to take another breath. your son is a tiny bird, flying joyfully free of his frail little body. Thank you, Bernadette, for sharing such an amazing and beautiful personal journey with all of us.
I am so very sorry to hear this. After losing my own son, I know there's nothing that anyone can say to make your heart hurt any less, but please know that he will have a friend in my angel, Drew. I pray that you, your husband and sweet baby girl will find peace in the coming days.
I am sorry to hear of Hayden's loss. He was a beautiful child who will be missed around the world. I pray for you and your family in this difficult time.
God bless you and your darling boy. Tank you for sharing his story with us. He was a beautiful and magnificent child and my heart aches for you and your family.
I'm so sorry to hear this news - thank you for sharing your son's life with all of us. He has inspired such love in others and will never, ever be forgotten. You are an amazing mom.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I am crying for you even though I only know you through your blog. Thank you for sharing Hayden's life with us -- you are an amazing family and he will always be remembered by so many. Sending love and sympathy to you all.
Like the posters before me...I have no words that could ever be adequate right now. I am so sorry for your loss, and I have been so blessed and grateful to follow your journey. Thank you for sharing your superhero with us. You are an incredible family.
Like the posters before me...I have no words that are adequate to convey the enormity of your loss. I am so sorry for your loss. It has been a blessing and a privilege to follow your journey. Thank you for sharing your superhero with us. You are an incredible family.
My thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you so much for being such an amazing mama to him. And thank you for sharing his journey with so many of us.
My deepest sympathies. I lost my pumpkin last November, she was 6 mos old, cardiac preemie with respiratory and feeding issues. I wish I can do smth to erase your pain, and give you a big hug. He is now free, and playing with other angels like Aaricia and Drew. Take care of yourself, your hubby and your princess.
Oh my goodness. I am so, so, so very sorry to read this news. I, too, thank you for sharing your amazing son with us. I hope the memories of his strength and courage bring you even a little bit of peace in the days to come.
There are no words. So terribly and deeply sad for you. Hayden was, and will always be, a shining light. May you, Duane and the Princess find peace in the beautiful memories you have of your special superhero.
I am so, so sorry about Hayden. He is a superhero, and so are you. Your devotion to him and his sister has been a testament to your love for your children. I know you will continue to keep his memory alive.
Wish I had the words to take away your pain, so sorry B, Master cheeks was a true superhero, sending you and your family hugs of peace at this difficult time x
I don't even know you but I wish I could put my arms around you know. I've been following your children for so long I do feel as if I know them. This community you have created mourns with you. Peace.
Ive followed this amazing little man since the day he was born and cannot put into words my feelings. You and you family are amazing and are in my thoughts and prayers.
Wish I had the words to take away your pain, I'm so very sorry for your loss B, Hayden master cheeks a true superhero and beautiful little boy, sending you and your family hugs of peace at this difficult time
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your family has been a true inspiration to so many people. We love you guys and know that precious little guy will be watching over all of us.
OMG I am in a complete daze, I am so so so sorry, there is nothing worse then what you are going through right now. your little boy was a hear and still is, and always be in my heart. May you have god looking over you these days to deal with this loss. I love you and your whole family, if you need anything please let me know.
Hayden touched so many people in his short life and was truly a remarkable boy. I am so sorry you have lost him. Thinking of you and your husband and the Princess and sending you many thoughts of peace in your sorrow.
How loved he was by all around the world! He awaits you in heaven, this is not goodbye forever just for now until you meet again. I have been praying for baby Hayden for months, I know he is at peace.
The light is brighter in the sky but the darkness on earth is heavy. As has been my custom for a long time, I called out his name during mass this morning during special calls for prayer. At the same time, I remembered that on this day in 1983 I experienced death for the first time in my life with the passing of my grandmother.
I wish there was more to have done. Or more to say to appease this day for you. Your family has an incredibly unfair burden and joy to continue to live with the memories of Hayden's strength and challenges.
Your children are the result of an unwavering dedication to love, which you have generously shared with so many through your blog. Thank you for letting us into your journey. I promise to be one among many who will never forget the story of your little boy.
I will continue to pray for peace in the soul of your dear child and for the life you celebrate as a family. Love to you all.
My deepest sympathy goes out to you, Bernadette. Through your blog, I've grown to love you and your family very much. Hayden (MC) will always be remembered with great love. May God bring you peace in the coming days.
Crying tears for you and your family. Hayden was loved around the world and you and Duane were deeply admired for your strength and love for your family.
sending you love. your journey has been an inspiration to me. Your love for Hayden is beyond anything I have seen. You have challenged my misconceptions. Fly sweet Hayden, mommy and daddy and princess love you.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Hayden. You are a wonderful family who gave him a life full of love. God bless you. May the fond memories of your son bring you peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Lynne
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I've followed your journey since the beginning... You are such an inspiration to me B. Following you and your blog gave me the courage to pursue surrogacy in India... Our twins are almost 3months now. Wishing many blessings and peace for you, MC and your entire family.
I was so sad to read this.. I am so terribly sorry for your loss.. I know words cannot heal your pain, but know that there are sooo many of us praying for your family... I too feel like I knew sweet Hayden.. Praying for healing and peace for your family Bernadette...
Bernadette. I am so sorry for your loss. Hayden was such a special little guy to so many people. He was the epitome of strength and courage, just like his Mommy. Big hugs to you, Duane and Scarlet. Xxx
Oh nonono. Your last 2 posts had me worried but I was holding out hope. I'm so glad you got to snuggle him. You are his mommy ALWAYS. You are the mother of 2 perfect, precious children today and forever.
My heart aches. I miss him already. The world feels emptier. Thank you so much for sharing him with us. It has been an honor to "know" your remarkable son.
Your beautiful little man received his wings. Hayden life has touched many people around the world. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope there are many people around you to wrap you in love and support you during this time. Many prayers and love from Colorado.
Your beautiful little man received his wings. Hayden life has touched many people around the world. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope there are many people around you to wrap you in love and support you during this time. Many prayers and love from Colorado.
Your beautiful little man received his wings. Hayden life has touched many people around the world. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope there are many people around you to wrap you in love and support you during this time. Many prayers and love from Colorado.
I am so so sorry for your loss. Both he and you are superheroes in my eyes, I imagine him flying free now, no longer restricted by the limitations of his body. Much love to you for the coming days
I am sorry for your loss. His life has touched so many of us, and his memory will be with us for a lifetime. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
I've come here by way of Mo's blog and I am heartbroken for you, your husband, your daughter, and everyone who came to know and love your son.
There are no adequate words to express condolences for a life taken way too soon. I read back and back as far as I could go and what continued to come to mind is that he is now, and forever, at peace. It comes at such a huge price for you and your family but he is free now and soaring.
I cannot begin to imagine what the next tomorrows will be like for you but I am wishing you peace of heart.
I am so sorry . Sending you peace and love and strength. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your journey and may your memories be strong in your hearts. There is so much love surrounding you from this strong community.
I am so so very sorry.. thank you for letting us see how much of a super hero he really was, we saw him through your eyes.. deepest sympathies for your family
I am so sorry B. We send all of our love and strength to all four of you at this painful time. Hayden will be missed by many. Big hugs of love and peace x x x
Oh B...so sorry to hear this...We are all better people to have known him...to have been here such a short time, he has enriched so many lives...I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this..but I know he is in a better place now..no more oxygen...no more distress...he is truly flying...he is a precious angel...God Bless you all...Thinking of you and praying for your family...
Oh my darling. Yes he is flying, knowing that you were the best Mum, Dad and sister he could have ever hoped for. With grief comes relief that he is no longer in any pain. Thanks so much for sharing this last year.
This was certainly not what I expected when I checked your blog tonight. There are no words. I have tears in my eyes right now. I am so sorry that you have to go through this experience. You and your entire family are an inspiration. - Suzanne
I have followed your blog for ages...only posted once to shared my "Welcome to Holland" poem. Tonight, I grieve the loss with you. Your devotion to your son (and daughter) was profound and will forever stay with me. Sweet, gentle hugs to your family.
Hayden was a beautiful boy loved very much by his parents. Our condolence to your family. We are sorry for your loss. Thank you for the courage, the strength, and the love you showed everyone here.
Bernadette, Duane and Scarlett.......Hayden will forever be in your hearts and he touched so many other hearts as well. The pain of losing him must be unbearable as he is a beautiful little soul. As you say he is flying now I hope that provides a little comfort but doubt it will. Your SCI Family from around the world has you in their thoughts.......I know in time you will treasure the nearly 12 months you had with Master Cheeks....and hope those lawnchair memories remain with you.xxxxx mel hay
I have never commented. Please accept my condolences on the passing of your beautiful MC, Hayden. If I can be 5% of the mother you are for Scarlet and Hayden I know that I will be doing good. R.I.P little angel. Jeanette - South Africa
I am so very very sorry, I have followed your blog from afar always checking to see how things were going.....There are no words that can take away the pain that you are all feeling at this time, he was such a beautiful little man & you are exceptional parents...Our thoughts & prayers are with you & sending you all our love at this terribly sad time...May he be in peace & may you have the strength to carry on....
I am so very very sorry, I have followed your blog from afar always checking to see how things were going.....There are no words that can take away the pain that you are all feeling at this time, he was such a beautiful little man & you are exceptional parents...Our thoughts & prayers are with you & sending you all our love at this terribly sad time...May he be in peace & may you have the strength to carry on....
I'm so sorry for the loss of your superhero, our thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time. Yours and Hayden's tenacity will always be something I remember.
Hayden was everyone's superhero and you have been a super family surrounding him with love and hugs and support. You really have created a bond with all of us that have followed MC's story. He will always hold a special place in my heart. And our family hopes to meet yours some time in the future. They may be delayed hugs but they'll be super hugs, powered by your unforgettable super hero. Sending big love...xo
It is such a huge sorrow to read your message, still, it's so very beautiful. I will keep my eyes open to spot his little red cape in the skies and I'm sure I will see him some day. He came and touched so many peoples hearts and soles - not the least his family members' - and will forever be in our memories as the Super Hero he truly was. Thanks to his fantastic parents and twin sister <3 You have been there for him every moment of his presence and I know that he will be there for you forever.
So so sorry...your superhero will be flying high with the angels watching over his amazing mommy and daddy and his beautiful sister. Thinking of you throughout this devastating time. Take care..sending much love xxxx
Knowing this day was coming doesn't make it any less tragic. MC wasn't here for a long time but his is still a life well lived, full of love, with a global family cheering him on. If only love could have saved him!! Virtual hugs to you all as we all mourning the passing of Hayden, truly a Super Hero! X Bridg
One little boy who has made a difference to so many people's lives. He is part of that beautiful princess Scarlet - here but not here. Everytime I see a baby with an awesome set of cheeks I will think of MC and remember his story. You are an inspiring mum, he couldn't have got a better one anywhere.....Fly superhero fly over the rainbow where skies are blue!
I love this Winnie the Pooh verse....I had it had my superhero's farewell...
How sweet to be a cloud floating in the blue! Every little cloud Always sings aloud. How sweet to be a cloud Floating in the blue! It makes him very proud to be a little cloud.
It makes me happy to think my little cloud is up there with your little cloud.
Our thoughts and love are with you at this saddest time. It has been an amazing journey and you gave Hayden the best life possible. Take care of yourselves and extra hugs for your little princess. He touched many lives in his short time.. he was definitely a superhero.
Our thoughts are with you at this terrible time. He was indeed a superhero and I know that he had the best life that you could possible give him. Take care of yourselves and extra hugs for the princess. xxx
Oh no Bernadette, I feel like I personally know your little man. I've followed your family's journey right from when Hayden and Scarlett were first created, my heart aches for u. He was such a trooper and I wondered if u would ever have to make this post, I'm so sorry you did. Thank u for sharing your courageous journey with the world, you have lots and lots of people thinking of u right now. Take care, Jemma xxx (Aust)
I am thinking about all of you. YOur family touched me and I was amazed by you and Duane and your love for Hayden. He was special and I so enjoyed the small amount of time I took care of him. I will be thinking and praying for all of you. Elizabeth, RN
I wish there were any words that would make the pain even a little less. Please know that your superhero, Master Cheeks, has changed the world and made us all a little better for the honor of knowing him through the eyes of his amazing mother. I am crying with you today and you are all in my heart.
I have followed MC's and your family's incredible journey over the last few months...you have been an inspiration throughout for me. While there are no words i can say or write that will ease your pain, please know as MC's family you are all tough and will overcome this challenge as well.
I pray for you all and MC will always be in my heart...
I write to you with the most profound sadness from Delhi where your extraordinary story of love and courage with your darling superhero started almost a year ago. It’s quiet and peaceful here less than a mile from India Gate, which you picture on your site. There are little birds singing in the garden that you and MC, and your little princess, must have heard in your long stay here. I have been here since December and came upon your blog while planning a baby in Delhi through surrogacy. Thank you for sharing your journey of great love and caring for your little baby. The pictures of the two of them together were ever so beautiful. Your little superhero was fortunate to have been part of this super family. May God look over and take care of you and Duane and your little princess for all time to come.
Reaching out across the miles to send you all our love and condolences. Hayden's couragous battle for life has been an inspiration to us all. Adam, Philip & Noah xx
Thinking of you. I hope that the fact that Hayden touched so many lives will of some comfort in such a difficult time. There are so many people who never met him but will never forget him.
I don't know you but please know your story has touched so many people. I pray you know peace and comfort during this time. I am sure Hayden is flying high watching over all of you. Hugs!!!
I am so very sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I know I've been a rare commenter lately, but I want you to know that you and your family have often been, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers. Sending love.
I discovered your blog last December and I was so captured by it that I read it all on two days.
Ever since I have kept MC and your family in my prayers almost every day. You will probably never know me, but your story has open my eyes and inspired me in more ways than possible.
Words don't mean much but I'm sorry for your loss and MC will always have someone in South America that will remember him.
Oh Bernadette, there are no words to describe the sadness & pain I am feeling for you, Dwayne, Princess & the rest of your family. My heart is broken for you. Please be assured that you did everything you could for Hayden. You are an incredibly amazing mother! And Master Cheeks knew that. You & him have made a huge impact on my life & on many others. Lifting you & your family up in prayer. There isn't anything God will give you that you can't handle.
Chris and I are saddened by the news of Master Cheeks and we are very sorry to hear. Over the last year we have found some members of the Hunton family are some of the most influential people of our lives, reminding us everyday what is the most important. Sending all our love, prayers, and thoughts to you and Duane. Love you all!
Thank you Hayden for everything that you brought to the world in your life. I know that you taught me about patience and strength, and that was just through your mother's words on her blog.
Bernadette, thank you for sharing your son's life with the world.
Bernadette, Duane and Princess, My most sincerest sympathies. You know that Superhero MC is flying effortlessly free without pain and suffering. I know that Princess Scarlett will always be a uniquely special person having had him in her life. You are an amazing mother, Bernadette and he had a special life thanks to your generous love. Sending our love to you all.
No one can know your grief; but do know your angel is loved and the world is a better place for having him here. Many prayers of peace to you and your family.
What a lucky boy to have had such a wonderful mommy and daddy who gave him everything they possibly could and made all those really tough choices for him so that he could earn his super hero cape and finally fly free. I know your heart is aching for your loss but rejoicing for Hayden's new freedom. My mommy heart aches for you today. He earned his wings on my granny's birthday so I will always remember your sweet boy. Many hugs for you and your family. Karaleen
Dear Bernadette and Family I have followed your blog since the moment you started and have never comment before. But nw you need to know how loved you, princess, Duane and MC are and always will be. You are an amazing mom, I hope that I can one day be half the mom that you are. MC is the luckiest little hero ever because he had you all as a family. Much Love Jean, Kay & Alex
My heart breaks for your family. As a mother who has lost a daughter there are no words of comfort I can give you. I will be praying for peace for your family.
You are my superhero Hayden, and you always will be. Bernadette, thanks you so much for sharing your amazing MC with us, your love for your babies has shone through your writing and has showed me what real love is. Xxxx
Don't ask me What you know is true Don't have to tell you I love your precious heart
I was standing You were there Two worlds collided And they could never tear us apart
We could live For a thousand years But if I hurt you I'd make wine from your tears
I told you That we could fly 'Cause we all have wings But some of us don't know why
I was standing You were there Two worlds collided And they could never ever tear us apart
INXS
I started humming this song when I read the news about the love of your life. It seems so very fitting and rather than try and think of something inspirational to say, I thought I'd post the lyrics.
I am in tears, this is so heartbreaking. May you find comfort in the hugs and love of friends and family near and far. We are so lucky to have a superhero looking down and guiding us.
You do not know me but I have followed your blog since the twins were born. My heart is breaking for you and your family. Thank you for sharing Hayden's too short life with all of us. I am a better mom for having "known" him and you. I am so,so sorry. Kristi
Fly high beautiful boy! The lessons that you taught your family and strangers pales in comparison to the love that you brought. God bless you all and I'm so profoundly sorry.
Like so many other posts, I too have been riveted and inspired by your journey. I have no adequate words, other than to tell you how very sorry I am for your family's loss. Your strength and absolute devotion to your precious baby boy this past year is a testimony to the type of incredible human being you must be. Both of your children are so fortunate to have you as a mother. Thank you for sharing your son's life with all of us. Sending you lots of love, prayers and positive energy.
My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so very sorry for your loss of Hayden. I wish I had more to say, but words fail me now. My thoughts are with you.
Oh Bernadette, I'm so sorry. Hayden was loved by my family, over here in Australia, too. He will be missed by so many people around the world, because he touched so many people. Love, hugs and peace to you and your family. xxx Zoe
I have no words to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about Hayden's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With deepest sympathy.
Oh Bernadette I am in shock. You did everything you could possibly do, you and Duane are amazing people and may Hayden always fly close to his Mummy and Daddy. My words are nothing compared to the heartache I feel for you all. Hayden's story has touched so many. I wish I could say these words to you in person and give you a big hug and say thank you for sharing your beautiful son's life with us xxx
I wish I could say something to assuage your pain right now but I can't. Just know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteMy deepest and most sincere sympathy go out to you and your sweet family. You are amazing and so is your sweet Hayden. May The Lord bless you all and give you peace and understanding. You have my admiration and the admiration of many. Your lives have touched and influenced so many people. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, i can't even imagine the pain your in, please know I'm thinking of you and your superhero. Your an amazing mother! I've been reading for a few months but never commented, i can only hope that I could be as strong as you if i am ever faced with a child with special needs!
ReplyDeleteNo words are enough..my heart aches for you. please know your family are in my prayers. Much love to you all.
ReplyDeleteSo, so sorry to hear. Thinking of you all.
ReplyDeleteYou have my deepest sympathies. So sad to see this post.
ReplyDeleteThere are no words to say that seem adequate. I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteOh no. I'm so sorry. As soon as I read your post title, my heart caught in my throat. I've been praying for your family. Please know I will continue. My love and sympathy are with you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. There are no words. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry.
ReplyDeletePlease know that I'm crying with you. I wish I could give you a huge hug. xoxo
ReplyDeleteOh Bernadette. I am so sorry. He was indeed a superhero.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry.
ReplyDeleteOh no so so sorry to hear you are an amazing woman. i cried when i read your news. Haydon is at peace now and like you said your little superhero is flyng now and he will always be in your heart. He knows he had the best mommy a baby could ever ever have. He is now safe in gods hands and no one or anything can hurt him now. xx from Australia.
ReplyDeleteOh Bernadette. I am so sorry. He was indeed a superhero.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for the pain you and your family must be feeling. What a special boy Hayden
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to read this news. Abiding with you. You and your family are in my thoughts. No parents should ever outlive their child.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how painful this must be for you and your family. He had exactly the parents he needed to have to have the best life possible for his time here. I will never forget him or your love for him. It has been a beautiful thing to witness. Big hugs.
ReplyDeleteHe sure was a superhero and he was so lucky to have a superhero for a mother. I have been dreading this post, and while I have two rivers streaming down my cheeks, I also feel a great sense of peace for Master Cheeks. You're in my thoughts like always. Hold that Princess tight, she'll always know she had a superhero for a brother.
ReplyDeleteYes he is, with no more procedures, no working so hard just to take another breath. your son is a tiny bird, flying joyfully free of his frail little body. Thank you, Bernadette, for sharing such an amazing and beautiful personal journey with all of us.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear this. After losing my own son, I know there's nothing that anyone can say to make your heart hurt any less, but please know that he will have a friend in my angel, Drew. I pray that you, your husband and sweet baby girl will find peace in the coming days.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear of Hayden's loss. He was a beautiful child who will be missed around the world. I pray for you and your family in this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this....Wishing you peace.
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God bless you and your darling boy. Tank you for sharing his story with us. He was a beautiful and magnificent child and my heart aches for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI'm so so sorry. He is a superhero. There really aren't words for how sorry I am that he couldn't stay longer.
ReplyDeleteSo so very sorry to her this Bernadette and family. Sending thoughts, prayers, and warmth your way during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear this news - thank you for sharing your son's life with all of us. He has inspired such love in others and will never, ever be forgotten. You are an amazing mom.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry for your loss. I am crying for you even though I only know you through your blog. Thank you for sharing Hayden's life with us -- you are an amazing family and he will always be remembered by so many. Sending love and sympathy to you all.
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Like the posters before me...I have no words that could ever be adequate right now. I am so sorry for your loss, and I have been so blessed and grateful to follow your journey. Thank you for sharing your superhero with us. You are an incredible family.
ReplyDeleteI am so very very sorry. My prayers (along with the surro community), thoughts and virtual hugs are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteOh I am so sorry. My heart aches for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
ReplyDeleteLike the posters before me...I have no words that are adequate to convey the enormity of your loss. I am so sorry for your loss. It has been a blessing and a privilege to follow your journey. Thank you for sharing your superhero with us. You are an incredible family.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you so much for being such an amazing mama to him. And thank you for sharing his journey with so many of us.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I had words to take away even a little bit of your pain. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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ReplyDeleteSending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathies. I lost my pumpkin last November, she was 6 mos old, cardiac preemie with respiratory and feeding issues. I wish I can do smth to erase your pain, and give you a big hug. He is now free, and playing with other angels like Aaricia and Drew. Take care of yourself, your hubby and your princess.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your tremendous loss. So many people loved and adored him and he will continue to impact many peoples' lives.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness. I am so, so, so very sorry to read this news. I, too, thank you for sharing your amazing son with us. I hope the memories of his strength and courage bring you even a little bit of peace in the days to come.
ReplyDeleteThere are no words. So terribly and deeply sad for you. Hayden was, and will always be, a shining light.
ReplyDeleteMay you, Duane and the Princess find peace in the beautiful memories you have of your special superhero.
I am so, so sorry about Hayden. He is a superhero, and so are you. Your devotion to him and his sister has been a testament to your love for your children. I know you will continue to keep his memory alive.
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry. You and your family have been an inspiration to us. Wishing you even more strength and love.
ReplyDeleteWish I had the words to take away your pain, so sorry B, Master cheeks was a true superhero, sending you and your family hugs of peace at this difficult time x
ReplyDeleteI don't even know you but I wish I could put my arms around you know. I've been following your children for so long I do feel as if I know them. This community you have created mourns with you. Peace.
ReplyDeleteIve followed this amazing little man since the day he was born and cannot put into words my feelings. You and you family are amazing and are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear. our thoughts are with you xx
ReplyDeleteWish I had the words to take away your pain, I'm so very sorry for your loss B, Hayden master cheeks a true superhero and beautiful little boy, sending you and your family hugs of peace at this difficult time
ReplyDeleteYou are in my thoughts and prayers. Your family has been a true inspiration to so many people. We love you guys and know that precious little guy will be watching over all of us.
ReplyDeleteHis time here may have been short, but he was loved and celebrated for every moment. I am so sorry for your loss. {{{HUGS}}}
ReplyDeleteOur hearts are with you, Duane, Scarlett and the wonderous little boy who we all loved.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you. Words can't Heal but I wish I could take the pain away. Stay string
ReplyDeleteOMG I am in a complete daze, I am so so so sorry, there is nothing worse then what you are going through right now. your little boy was a hear and still is, and always be in my heart. May you have god looking over you these days to deal with this loss. I love you and your whole family, if you need anything please let me know.
ReplyDeleteHayden touched so many people in his short life and was truly a remarkable boy. I am so sorry you have lost him. Thinking of you and your husband and the Princess and sending you many thoughts of peace in your sorrow.
ReplyDeleteMo
How loved he was by all around the world! He awaits you in heaven, this is not goodbye forever just for now until you meet again. I have been praying for baby Hayden for months, I know he is at peace.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteOh! I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sweet Hayden is soaring. *hugs*
ReplyDelete-Kerry
I'm so very sorry. Hayden has made a lasting memory for many of us.
ReplyDeleteDixie
The light is brighter in the sky but the darkness on earth is heavy. As has been my custom for a long time, I called out his name during mass this morning during special calls for prayer. At the same time, I remembered that on this day in 1983 I experienced death for the first time in my life with the passing of my grandmother.
ReplyDeleteI wish there was more to have done. Or more to say to appease this day for you. Your family has an incredibly unfair burden and joy to continue to live with the memories of Hayden's strength and challenges.
Your children are the result of an unwavering dedication to love, which you have generously shared with so many through your blog. Thank you for letting us into your journey. I promise to be one among many who will never forget the story of your little boy.
I will continue to pray for peace in the soul of your dear child and for the life you celebrate as a family.
Love to you all.
Our love and prayers to your family from ours.
ReplyDeleteMike, Mike, Eva and Rose
Our love and prayers to your family from ours.
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathy goes out to you, Bernadette. Through your blog, I've grown to love you and your family very much. Hayden (MC) will always be remembered with great love. May God bring you peace in the coming days.
ReplyDeleteJaime
Crying tears for you and your family. Hayden was loved around the world and you and Duane were deeply admired for your strength and love for your family.
ReplyDeletesending you love. your journey has been an inspiration to me. Your love for Hayden is beyond anything I have seen. You have challenged my misconceptions. Fly sweet Hayden, mommy and daddy and princess love you.
ReplyDeletePeace be with you MC, you are our little super hero from afar and we love you.
ReplyDeleteBernadette, Duane and Scarlett.............................................................peace be with you along with all the love on this earth.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Hayden. You are a wonderful family who gave him a life full of love. God bless you. May the fond memories of your son bring you peace. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Lynne
ReplyDeleteYou and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I've followed your journey since the beginning... You are such an inspiration to me B. Following you and your blog gave me the courage to pursue surrogacy in India... Our twins are almost 3months now. Wishing many blessings and peace for you, MC and your entire family.
ReplyDeleteWishing you strength to pull through each day. Prayers for the rest of your family.
ReplyDeleteI've followed off and on for a while. I am so sad to see this post. Thinking of you. I am so so sorry.
ReplyDeleteI was so sad to read this.. I am so terribly sorry for your loss.. I know words cannot heal your pain, but know that there are sooo many of us praying for your family... I too feel like I knew sweet Hayden.. Praying for healing and peace for your family Bernadette...
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ReplyDeleteI'm a longtime reader, and am so sorry for your loss and your family's loss. Sending you care and hugs.
ReplyDeleteBernadette. I am so sorry for your loss. Hayden was such a special little guy to so many people. He was the epitome of strength and courage, just like his Mommy. Big hugs to you, Duane and Scarlet. Xxx
ReplyDeleteOh nonono. Your last 2 posts had me worried but I was holding out hope. I'm so glad you got to snuggle him. You are his mommy ALWAYS. You are the mother of 2 perfect, precious children today and forever.
ReplyDeleteMy heart aches. I miss him already. The world feels emptier. Thank you so much for sharing him with us. It has been an honor to "know" your remarkable son.
-Katie
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. What a precious angel he is. Thoughts and prayers coming your way.
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry. He couldn't have chosen a more loving family. Know that he won't be forgotten by those of us in your virtual community.
ReplyDeleteYou and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. He sure is a superhero!
ReplyDeleteYour beautiful little man received his wings. Hayden life has touched many people around the world. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope there are many people around you to wrap you in love and support you during this time. Many prayers and love from Colorado.
ReplyDeleteYour beautiful little man received his wings. Hayden life has touched many people around the world. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope there are many people around you to wrap you in love and support you during this time. Many prayers and love from Colorado.
ReplyDeleteYour beautiful little man received his wings. Hayden life has touched many people around the world. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope there are many people around you to wrap you in love and support you during this time. Many prayers and love from Colorado.
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ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry for your loss. Both he and you are superheroes in my eyes, I imagine him flying free now, no longer restricted by the limitations of his body. Much love to you for the coming days
Visiting from Mo's blog. Thinking of you, Master Cheeks, and your entire family at this time. Hugs to you all.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for your loss. His life has touched so many of us, and his memory will be with us for a lifetime. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI've come here by way of Mo's blog and I am heartbroken for you, your husband, your daughter, and everyone who came to know and love your son.
ReplyDeleteThere are no adequate words to express condolences for a life taken way too soon. I read back and back as far as I could go and what continued to come to mind is that he is now, and forever, at peace. It comes at such a huge price for you and your family but he is free now and soaring.
I cannot begin to imagine what the next tomorrows will be like for you but I am wishing you peace of heart.
I am so sorry . Sending you peace and love and strength. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your journey and may your memories be strong in your hearts. There is so much love surrounding you from this strong community.
ReplyDeleteso very sorry for your loss. there are no good words. holding your family in love and light.
ReplyDeleteI am so so very sorry.. thank you for letting us see how much of a super hero he really was, we saw him through your eyes.. deepest sympathies for your family
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry B. We send all of our love and strength to all four of you at this painful time. Hayden will be missed by many. Big hugs of love and peace x x x
ReplyDeleteThere are no words....I'm so sorry.....
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing him with us. All the love in the world to you.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing him with us. All the love in the world to you.
ReplyDeleteI am so very, very sorry of the loss of your beautiful son. My heart just breaks for you and your family. He is a very special soul.
ReplyDeleteHe always will be our superhero and you SUPERMOM.
ReplyDeleteOur condolences from Spain
I am so sorry for your loss - you are truly an inspiration. Thankyou for sharing.
ReplyDeleteOh B...so sorry to hear this...We are all better people to have known him...to have been here such a short time, he has enriched so many lives...I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this..but I know he is in a better place now..no more oxygen...no more distress...he is truly flying...he is a precious angel...God Bless you all...Thinking of you and praying for your family...
ReplyDeleteOh- no words...sending huge hugs. What an amazing little boy.
ReplyDeleteI am so incredibly sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry, fly high little man, you are all super heroes. with love and admiration, Meg, Australia
ReplyDeleteOh my darling. Yes he is flying, knowing that you were the best Mum, Dad and sister he could have ever hoped for. With grief comes relief that he is no longer in any pain. Thanks so much for sharing this last year.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of your loss. We'll never forget your Superhero! Thanks for sharing the journey with us. Wishing you comfort and peace.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss. We'll never forget your superhero! Thanks for sharing the journey with us. Wishing comfort and peace for you.
ReplyDeleteThis breaks my heart. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family. No mother should ever have to go through the loss of a child.
ReplyDeleteThis was certainly not what I expected when I checked your blog tonight. There are no words. I have tears in my eyes right now. I am so sorry that you have to go through this experience. You and your entire family are an inspiration. - Suzanne
ReplyDeleteI have followed your blog for ages...only posted once to shared my "Welcome to Holland" poem. Tonight, I grieve the loss with you. Your devotion to your son (and daughter) was profound and will forever stay with me. Sweet, gentle hugs to your family.
ReplyDeleteSadie
Here via LFCA. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Hayden.
ReplyDeleteHayden was a beautiful boy loved very much by his parents. Our condolence to your family. We are sorry for your loss. Thank you for the courage, the strength, and the love you showed everyone here.
ReplyDeleteFly little Hayden!
ReplyDeleteBeen following you since India and so inspired by you Bernadette, Hayden, Princess and Duane.
Much love
I am so sorry for your loss and will be praying for your family. Hayden was and is surrounded by so much love!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss of such a beautiful baby boy. My heart breaks for you.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss, for the loss of such a beautiful baby boy.
ReplyDeleteBernadette, Duane and Scarlett.......Hayden will forever be in your hearts and he touched so many other hearts as well. The pain of losing him must be unbearable as he is a beautiful little soul. As you say he is flying now I hope that provides a little comfort but doubt it will. Your SCI Family from around the world has you in their thoughts.......I know in time you will treasure the nearly 12 months you had with Master Cheeks....and hope those lawnchair memories remain with you.xxxxx mel hay
ReplyDeleteWe love you. XX OO
ReplyDeleteI have never commented. Please accept my condolences on the passing of your beautiful MC, Hayden. If I can be 5% of the mother you are for Scarlet and Hayden I know that I will be doing good. R.I.P little angel. Jeanette - South Africa
ReplyDeleteI am so very very sorry, I have followed your blog from afar always checking to see how things were going.....There are no words that can take away the pain that you are all feeling at this time, he was such a beautiful little man & you are exceptional parents...Our thoughts & prayers are with you & sending you all our love at this terribly sad time...May he be in peace & may you have the strength to carry on....
ReplyDeleteI am so very very sorry, I have followed your blog from afar always checking to see how things were going.....There are no words that can take away the pain that you are all feeling at this time, he was such a beautiful little man & you are exceptional parents...Our thoughts & prayers are with you & sending you all our love at this terribly sad time...May he be in peace & may you have the strength to carry on....
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for the loss of your superhero, our thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time. Yours and Hayden's tenacity will always be something I remember.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers go out to you and your family Bernadette. Hayden is at peace and will always be remembered.
ReplyDeleteHayden was everyone's superhero and you have been a super family surrounding him with love and hugs and support. You really have created a bond with all of us that have followed MC's story. He will always hold a special place in my heart. And our family hopes to meet yours some time in the future. They may be delayed hugs but they'll be super hugs, powered by your unforgettable super hero. Sending big love...xo
ReplyDeleteIt is such a huge sorrow to read your message, still, it's so very beautiful. I will keep my eyes open to spot his little red cape in the skies and I'm sure I will see him some day. He came and touched so many peoples hearts and soles - not the least his family members' - and will forever be in our memories as the Super Hero he truly was. Thanks to his fantastic parents and twin sister <3 You have been there for him every moment of his presence and I know that he will be there for you forever.
ReplyDeleteOh sweetie, I am so sorry to hear this. You, Duane & Scarlett are in our prayers!!! We love you all.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. Fly high, Super Cheeks.
ReplyDeleteOh sweetie, I am so sorry to hear this. You are in our thoughts & prayers. We love you all.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. Fly high, Super Cheeks.
ReplyDeleteSo so sorry...your superhero will be flying high with the angels watching over his amazing mommy and daddy and his beautiful sister. Thinking of you throughout this devastating time. Take care..sending much love xxxx
ReplyDeleteKnowing this day was coming doesn't make it any less tragic. MC wasn't here for a long time but his is still a life well lived, full of love, with a global family cheering him on. If only love could have saved him!! Virtual hugs to you all as we all mourning the passing of Hayden, truly a Super Hero! X Bridg
ReplyDeleteOne little boy who has made a difference to so many people's lives. He is part of that beautiful princess Scarlet - here but not here. Everytime I see a baby with an awesome set of cheeks I will think of MC and remember his story. You are an inspiring mum, he couldn't have got a better one anywhere.....Fly superhero fly over the rainbow where skies are blue!
ReplyDeleteI love this Winnie the Pooh verse....I had it had my superhero's farewell...
ReplyDeleteHow sweet to be a cloud
floating in the blue!
Every little cloud
Always sings aloud.
How sweet to be a cloud
Floating in the blue!
It makes him very proud
to be a little cloud.
It makes me happy to think my little cloud is up there with your little cloud.
Love xo
Our thoughts and love are with you at this saddest time. It has been an amazing journey and you gave Hayden the best life possible. Take care of yourselves and extra hugs for your little princess. He touched many lives in his short time.. he was definitely a superhero.
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts are with you at this terrible time. He was indeed a superhero and I know that he had the best life that you could possible give him. Take care of yourselves and extra hugs for the princess.
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Oh no Bernadette, I feel like I personally know your little man. I've followed your family's journey right from when Hayden and Scarlett were first created, my heart aches for u. He was such a trooper and I wondered if u would ever have to make this post, I'm so sorry you did. Thank u for sharing your courageous journey with the world, you have lots and lots of people thinking of u right now. Take care, Jemma xxx (Aust)
ReplyDeleteSo sorry... :-'( we send you a lot of warm hug to you and family...
ReplyDeleteOur deepest condolences, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. xoxo Hayden you will be missed dearly.
ReplyDeleteI am thinking about all of you. YOur family touched me and I was amazed by you and Duane and your love for Hayden. He was special and I so enjoyed the small amount of time I took care of him. I will be thinking and praying for all of you. Elizabeth, RN
ReplyDeleteI am, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family at this sad time.
ReplyDeleteI wish there were any words that would make the pain even a little less. Please know that your superhero, Master Cheeks, has changed the world and made us all a little better for the honor of knowing him through the eyes of his amazing mother. I am crying with you today and you are all in my heart.
ReplyDeleteI have followed MC's and your family's incredible journey over the last few months...you have been an inspiration throughout for me. While there are no words i can say or write that will ease your pain, please know as MC's family you are all tough and will overcome this challenge as well.
ReplyDeleteI pray for you all and MC will always be in my heart...
I write to you with the most profound sadness from Delhi where your extraordinary story of love and courage with your darling superhero started almost a year ago. It’s quiet and peaceful here less than a mile from India Gate, which you picture on your site. There are little birds singing in the garden that you and MC, and your little princess, must have heard in your long stay here. I have been here since December and came upon your blog while planning a baby in Delhi through surrogacy. Thank you for sharing your journey of great love and caring for your little baby. The pictures of the two of them together were ever so beautiful. Your little superhero was fortunate to have been part of this super family.
ReplyDeleteMay God look over and take care of you and Duane and your little princess for all time to come.
Reaching out across the miles to send you all our love and condolences. Hayden's couragous battle for life has been an inspiration to us all.
ReplyDeleteAdam, Philip & Noah xx
I'm thinking of you and your amazing family. So sorry
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. I hope that the fact that Hayden touched so many lives will of some comfort in such a difficult time. There are so many people who never met him but will never forget him.
ReplyDeleteI don't know you but please know your story has touched so many people. I pray you know peace and comfort during this time. I am sure Hayden is flying high watching over all of you. Hugs!!!
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I know I've been a rare commenter lately, but I want you to know that you and your family have often been, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers. Sending love.
ReplyDeleteI have no words, only prayers. Hugs to you, mama.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for your loss . Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo much love to your super hero, your princess and their wonderful Mommy and Daddy.
ReplyDeleteI will light a candle for your superherero... I just cannot believe how unfair life can be. So sad.
ReplyDeleteIsabelle (Montréal)
sweet sweet hayden, beloved on this earth.
ReplyDeletemany tears are being shed for this great loss,
and much love to you, your husband, and your daughter...
may peace be with you all,
as it is with hayden now.
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ReplyDeleteSo very sorry. Praying for your family as you take time to grieve.
ReplyDeleteI discovered your blog last December and I was so captured by it that I read it all on two days.
ReplyDeleteEver since I have kept MC and your family in my prayers almost every day. You will probably never know me, but your story has open my eyes and inspired me in more ways than possible.
Words don't mean much but I'm sorry for your loss and MC will always have someone in South America that will remember him.
Oh Bernadette, there are no words to describe the sadness & pain I am feeling for you, Dwayne, Princess & the rest of your family. My heart is broken for you. Please be assured that you did everything you could for Hayden. You are an incredibly amazing mother! And Master Cheeks knew that. You & him have made a huge impact on my life & on many others. Lifting you & your family up in prayer. There isn't anything God will give you that you can't handle.
ReplyDeleteChris and I are saddened by the news of Master Cheeks and we are very sorry to hear. Over the last year we have found some members of the Hunton family are some of the most influential people of our lives, reminding us everyday what is the most important. Sending all our love, prayers, and thoughts to you and Duane. Love you all!
ReplyDeleteJudy B.
I'm sorry for your unbelievable loss. Thinking of you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. I'm so, so sorry.
ReplyDeleteThinking about you!
ReplyDeleteThere are no words. I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteThinking about you.
Dear Bernadette and Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We understand the pain you are going through. We empathize with your loss.
ReplyDeleteFly high little Hayden. The world loves you.
ReplyDeleteHere from LFCA. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteThank you Hayden for everything that you brought to the world in your life. I know that you taught me about patience and strength, and that was just through your mother's words on her blog.
ReplyDeleteBernadette, thank you for sharing your son's life with the world.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Bernadette, Duane and Princess, My most sincerest sympathies. You know that Superhero MC is flying effortlessly free without pain and suffering. I know that Princess Scarlett will always be a uniquely special person having had him in her life. You are an amazing mother, Bernadette and he had a special life thanks to your generous love. Sending our love to you all.
ReplyDeleteWords fail me. I am so sorry. Please know that I will keep you and your family and sweet Hayden in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteI am so deeply sorry for your tragic loss.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am sending much love and many prayers your way. -Fred
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry, so very sorry. I am praying for you and your family.
ReplyDeletekeeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for you all :( You will be in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteNo one can know your grief; but do know your angel is loved and the world is a better place for having him here. Many prayers of peace to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lucky boy to have had such a wonderful mommy and daddy who gave him everything they possibly could and made all those really tough choices for him so that he could earn his super hero cape and finally fly free. I know your heart is aching for your loss but rejoicing for Hayden's new freedom. My mommy heart aches for you today. He earned his wings on my granny's birthday so I will always remember your sweet boy. Many hugs for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteKaraleen
I am so sorry about your son Hayden. Many {{hugs}} and I'm sending lots of love and light to your family (here via LFCA)
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss:( Your family is my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI have no words, I'm so so sorry. Thank you for sharing, for being open, for changing lives, Hayden you are a beautiful soul. Loves from Oregon.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. He is a beautiful boy. My prayers and thoughts to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteDear Bernadette and Family
ReplyDeleteI have followed your blog since the moment you started and have never comment before. But nw you need to know how loved you, princess, Duane and MC are and always will be. You are an amazing mom, I hope that I can one day be half the mom that you are. MC is the luckiest little hero ever because he had you all as a family.
Much Love Jean, Kay & Alex
My heart aches for you. Thank you for sharing Hayden and Scarlett with us.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this news.
ReplyDeleteYou are your family are in my thoughts.
Hayden showed the world how much of a super mom you are and continue to be. No hurdle was ever too big.
You've inspired us all to be stronger people.
Thinking of you.
Peace and love to your family.
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for your family. As a mother who has lost a daughter there are no words of comfort I can give you. I will be praying for peace for your family.
ReplyDeleteYou are my superhero Hayden, and you always will be. Bernadette, thanks you so much for sharing your amazing MC with us, your love for your babies has shone through your writing and has showed me what real love is. Xxxx
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you and your family. What a sweet little man you have been blessed with.
ReplyDeleteDon't ask me
ReplyDeleteWhat you know is true
Don't have to tell you
I love your precious heart
I was standing
You were there
Two worlds collided
And they could never tear us apart
We could live
For a thousand years
But if I hurt you
I'd make wine from your tears
I told you
That we could fly
'Cause we all have wings
But some of us don't know why
I was standing
You were there
Two worlds collided
And they could never ever tear us apart
INXS
I started humming this song when I read the news about the love of your life. It seems so very fitting and rather than try and think of something inspirational to say, I thought I'd post the lyrics.
I am in tears, this is so heartbreaking. May you find comfort in the hugs and love of friends and family near and far. We are so lucky to have a superhero looking down and guiding us.
ReplyDeleteFrom all over the world: Tears, Prayers, Love, and Faith in continuing miracles.
ReplyDeleteWith deep sorrow, Old Ca Grandmother
You do not know me but I have followed your blog since the twins were born. My heart is breaking for you and your family. Thank you for sharing Hayden's too short life with all of us. I am a better mom for having "known" him and you. I am so,so sorry. Kristi
ReplyDeleteFly high beautiful boy! The lessons that you taught your family and strangers pales in comparison to the love that you brought. God bless you all and I'm so profoundly sorry.
ReplyDeleteSo very, very, very sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteDear Bernadette,
ReplyDeleteLike so many other posts, I too have been riveted and inspired by your journey. I have no adequate words, other than to tell you how very sorry I am for your family's loss. Your strength and absolute devotion to your precious baby boy this past year is a testimony to the type of incredible human being you must be. Both of your children are so fortunate to have you as a mother. Thank you for sharing your son's life with all of us. Sending you lots of love, prayers and positive energy.
God bless you
Deeply, deeply sorry for your losses. What a beautiful boy.
ReplyDeleteBernadette & Duane, you all are in our thoughts and prayers and we will light candles for you all as we go to mass this Sunday.
ReplyDeleteKnow that Hayden will be remembered by all of us in this community across the globe, his flame will shine brightly in both our minds and hearts.
Berndette,
Beautiful Hayden flying high. Our hearts are breaking with yours. X
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so very sorry for your loss of Hayden.
ReplyDeleteI wish I had more to say, but words fail me now. My thoughts are with you.
I'm so very sorry. Fly high beautiful boy. You are so very loved and you will be deeply missed.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you & your family. Sending lost of thoughts & **hugs**
ReplyDeleteFrom one mom to another, I share your heartache. Praying for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteOh Bernadette, I'm so sorry. Hayden was loved by my family, over here in Australia, too. He will be missed by so many people around the world, because he touched so many people. Love, hugs and peace to you and your family. xxx Zoe
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry. Hayden was such a sweet and brave boy and touched so many hearts. My deepest condolences on your loss.
ReplyDeleteI have no words to express how deeply sorry I am to hear about Hayden's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With deepest sympathy.
ReplyDeleteYour devotion to each other has been an inspiration across the globe. I am so, so sorry. Lisa xx
ReplyDeleteOh Bernadette I am in shock. You did everything you could possibly do, you and Duane are amazing people and may Hayden always fly close to his Mummy and Daddy. My words are nothing compared to the heartache I feel for you all. Hayden's story has touched so many. I wish I could say these words to you in person and give you a big hug and say thank you for sharing your beautiful son's life with us xxx
ReplyDeleteBernadette, you'll let us know if there is a place we can make a donation in Hayden's name or help you in some way, please. We would love to do that.
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