On the day we announced the birth of our boy/girl twins, one of our family members commented that we had been blessed with "a rich man's family." The phrase is a nod to the fact that with one of each sex, there is no sharing, hence, you must be rich to raise them.
I will say that from the start these two have lived up to their name. From their four year debut to their most recent decision to book an extended stay at Hotel Delhi New Born, these babies are clearly under the impression that they were born into "a rich man's family." (Mommy will be having a little chat with them about this small "misunderstanding" when she arrives.)
Nevertheless, I could not agree more that we are indeed, one of the "richest" families ever. The support we have received from our friends, our local family, our Indian family, our coworkers and of course, our worldwide infertility family has been overwhelming.
Indeed, we are a very rich family.
and now for the update...
Scarlett is continuing to progress, still breathing on her own and increasing her feeds to 10ml every 2 hours. Please keep the prayers and well wishes coming for our Hayden. He is still on the ventilator and attempts to extubate him have been unsuccessful. An echo has revealed no heart abnormalities and an in-depth skull ultrasound will be performed soon. He is taking an 11ml feed every 3 hours. We love our little guy so much and and cannot wait for him to recover. Come on little buddy... you can do it!
I will say that from the start these two have lived up to their name. From their four year debut to their most recent decision to book an extended stay at Hotel Delhi New Born, these babies are clearly under the impression that they were born into "a rich man's family." (Mommy will be having a little chat with them about this small "misunderstanding" when she arrives.)
Nevertheless, I could not agree more that we are indeed, one of the "richest" families ever. The support we have received from our friends, our local family, our Indian family, our coworkers and of course, our worldwide infertility family has been overwhelming.
Indeed, we are a very rich family.
and now for the update...
Scarlett is continuing to progress, still breathing on her own and increasing her feeds to 10ml every 2 hours. Please keep the prayers and well wishes coming for our Hayden. He is still on the ventilator and attempts to extubate him have been unsuccessful. An echo has revealed no heart abnormalities and an in-depth skull ultrasound will be performed soon. He is taking an 11ml feed every 3 hours. We love our little guy so much and and cannot wait for him to recover. Come on little buddy... you can do it!
Thinking of you. Glad to hear that Scarlett is improving and praying that Hayden catches up soon!
ReplyDeleteA parent who meets the LOVE of her children couldn't be richer than if he/she played the mega-millions lotto. (But I'm buying a ticket today just in case...hey, don't judge, it's $540 million buckaroos!)
ReplyDeleteKeep on keeping on little S and H!
You must be getting so excited :)
ReplyDeleteThe little guy's a fighter. He will do it.
K
That was very sweet about the milkshake. What a nice guy. Can't wait for you guys to be in India with them! You indeed are a very rich family!
ReplyDeleteI like that milkshake story. Very nice of him to do that. People at work surprise me every day! Thinking super positive thoughts for S&H. Thanks for the update. Take care.
ReplyDeleteLots of love on its way to your little treasures! Greetings from our Swedish little Viking aswell :)
ReplyDeleteyou are on your way, little improvements each day will get you there....I am praying for your family
ReplyDeleteHayden and Scarlett are in our prayers - he will get there!!! Such a touching moment about the milkshake!!! Best wishes!! K
ReplyDeleteThe milkshake story was lovely! Sending lots of positive thoughts to both Hayden & Scarlett!!!
ReplyDeleteBest wishes
lisa
Hey girl
ReplyDeleteYou know I got you. You I got you and your little ones on my prayers very single night. He will be fine I know it I. My heart. You take care as well. Ok need anything let me know.
Michael
I never even thought of the phrase "a rich man's family" to mean anything other than rich with blessings and love & I'm sure that family member meant the same.
ReplyDeleteMay I join in on the toast....
"to Scarlett & Hayden"
CHEERS
Milkshake!!!That is sooo touching...keeping Hayden and Scarlett in my thoughts and extending my wish for them a speedy recovery!!
ReplyDeletekathy
I don't have a blog but have been following you (our girl via IVF arrived on March 8th) and I just wanted to say I'm so excited for you, your husband and families about Hayden and Scarlett. Wonderful names btw.
ReplyDeletePrayers are being sent from California to Delhi!
Wishing you all many, many blessings!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Still praying every night for Scarlett and Hayden, esp Hayden. Come on little guy you can do it!!!!!
ReplyDeleteReally appreciating the frequent updates thanks B! XX
ReplyDeleteawww, you always have a way of making me well up. its good to have supportive people aroung you. yep, i have paryed for your twinnies this morning.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and sending all our best over to Scarlett and Hayden. They are in great hands, and as you know Amy and Lara spent 3-4 weeks there. Thank you for keeping us updated with their news. My parents send you their greetings also as they have followed your journey too. SJ & B xx
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you all every day. I hope that Hayden catches up soon. I thought rich mans family meant blessed with riches!
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear Scarlett doing so much better. Hopefully we will hear some good news about Hayden soon too. Good luck
ReplyDeleteHi Bernadette I am going back to Delhi New Born in the morning as Hari is having a follow up appointment. I will ask if I can see Scarlett and Hayden. I'll say I have your permission. I'll report back. I can reassure you that they are getting excellent care (it's just not what we are used to in terms of environment) but they filled me with confidence and I was impressed.
ReplyDeleteAvey, that would be just lovely. I know you have your hands full, so no worries if it doesn't work out. I was given a full report on the pluses and minuses of Delhi New Born-- had I known you would be there, I would have given you a little heads up:) Hoping you are enjoying every second of your new mommyhood!
DeleteBern, I didn't mean the 'Rich Man's' family to be anything but being rich with love and blessings of family and friends, as you and Duane have been through this entire journey. How wonderfully blessed these children are to have you two as their parents. So loved, so wanted. You four are rich in all respects. We love all of you and pray for your health and happiness! Bring those babies home soon so we can meet them and congratulate their Mommy and Daddy! Love you lots! Gary and Ann
ReplyDeleteSending prayers for Hayden.s speedy recovery. Your children are going to be very much loved
ReplyDeleteBernadette we are in delhi right now about to really start our surrogacy journey. All the best Mel and
andrew