Well, we may not be "THERE" yet, but we have officially/unofficially made it to Trimester

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.... the unofficial part being that we're not exactly sure when Trimester 2 begins?!? However, as of yesterday, our conception age was 11 weeks 4 days, we received our "12" week scan, and "our twins" (still haven't come up with blogging names for them yet) were measuring in at 13 weeks 1 day and 13 weeks 3 days. Which, if my calculations are correct (11 weeks 4 days + 12 weeks + 13 weeks 1 day + 13 weeks 3 days) equals graduation to the second trimester!!! Apparently, judging from their size, these little gals were just as anxious to plow through that first trimester as we were!
Go babies go!
Along with our ultrasound pictures, we also got a "bonus" page full of random letters and numbers. To be honest, it might as well have been written in Hindi-- we hadn't a clue what anything meant. So, we dutifully copy and pasted each line into google, and wouldn't you know it, everything is just fine! Head size, nasal bone, nuchal lucency, athletic ability (just kidding)... it was all there and we are thrilled to hear that everybody is doing "a-ok." My favorite line, of course, was "the liquor is adequate." Indeed, the liquor is adequate at mommy's house as well-- these past few months have been VERY stressful!
And while this whole "average, normal, everything is fine" concept is still very new to us, we are slowly getting used to the idea, which is the very reason I received this second email yesterday morning:
No sorry, this is a $400 stroller, I will take $175 but there is no way I would take $50. Best Offer usually means a REASONABLE offer. Your offer is a joke and very unreasonable.
Bahahaha, guess who was on Craigslist the night before "browsing" for triplet strollers??? The seller's response of course can be read in one of two ways: (1) I am "cost-conscious" (nice way of saying cheap) or (2) I am not quite ready to actually make a baby purchase, but I am at least becoming comfortable with the "idea" of making a baby purchase.
The truth is, the answer is both. I will always be the "saver" in the relationship, and I certainly predict that my efforts will increase as soon as we acquire three more mouths to feed. I am also, however, not quite ready to go baby shopping yet. I am getting very close though, and accordingly, expect to see some mindless "small" ticket item purchases in the coming weeks (minivans and triplet strollers to be reserved for 25+ weeks).
Finally, as Ken has now managed to have his scans scheduled a full week apart from the twins (yes, we see this as a sign of things to come) we will be reserving his graduation festivities for the end of this week. Until then, much love to all, particularly those who are dreaming sweet dreams of a delicious Thursday feast!
Congratulations to your twins :) two more trimesters to go and I wish you very calm an pleasant such. It feels like your weeks are going faster than ours - how do you do that? It would be good to be able to scroll 4 weeks. :D
ReplyDeleteCongrats on Trimester 2! Go babies go...... Grow babies Grow.
ReplyDeleteHey Bernadette, you might want to start looking around for a support group for moms of multiples. I have another friend with triplets, and this was a tremendous source of support and guidance for her both before and after the babies came.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you commented on my blog! I can't wait to follow along on your journey! And side note, as I was browsing through your blog and I saw that one of your surrogates had been admitted for severe nausea a while back? Fun fact - I was admitted to the hospital for the same thing at the exact same gestation she was. Pretty crazy, huh?
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to follow your journey!
CONGRATULATIONS ON TRIMESTER 2!!!! YAY!!
ReplyDeletethis is an amazing thing!
so very happy for you!! <3
xoxoxo
maria
Great news about the triplets :) Your story about the stroller made me laugh... Sorry, not sure that was the intention! Xx
ReplyDeleteThey say the shopping phase starts in the second trimester. We plan to make small ticket items during this time but no promises! The Restoration Hardware Baby and Child catalog is calling my name!
ReplyDeleteHi Bernadette
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with Allie... it is great to get in touch with a multiple support group.. they really helped me when we first found out we were expecting 3 and also since their birth... they understand the challenges of looking after 3 babies at once and helped me feel that I was doing okay!
It is an amazing place to be... take care Paula :)
I wasn't blogging this weekend but I saved this one to get to today. It sounds like everything is coming along nicely and I applaud you on not rushing out to buy the Rolls-Royce of "everything baby". Good for you!
ReplyDeleteYour Friend, m.
this is wonderful, congrats, keep up the good work!!
ReplyDeleteWHEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! Ya for 2nd Tri! I will be there in just over 3 weeks. SO AMAZING!!!!!!!!! Thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteNice meeting you I am going to follow your story!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by my blog cos otherwise I mightn't of found out your amazing story! Congrats on getting to the second trimester, yay! I am also very cost conscious, the change table I have was left out on the curb on a hard rubbish collection day, I snapped that little sucker up, tightened all the screws, gave it a new coat of paint and bought a new topper and it is a beauty!
ReplyDeleteSecond trimester WOOT HOOT!!! YAY!! It is an awesome milestone (doesn't take away any anxiety tho'). Three babies, wow wow! Who would have thought when you started out that this would be it! Amazing!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on this huge milestone Bernadette :)
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